Travel Friends With Benefits

Authentic experiences & insider benefits for queer travelers

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About Bestmates

Redefining Queer Travel

We're a community dedicated to redefining queer travel. We focus on connecting LGBTQ+ travelers who seek authentic cultural experiences through a queer lens around the globe.

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Resorts & Hotels

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Cruises

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Group Travel

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Pride Travel

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Friends With Benefits

From niche boutiques to 5-star resorts to Michelin Keys, we partner with the best properties around the world to get you insider-only perks—at no extra cost.

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Spa/Resort Credits

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Comped Breakfasts

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Early-Check-In

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Late Check-Out

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Custom Travel

Itineraries Made For You

We've got the latest destination intel to build travel itineraries focused on genuine connection and authenticity. Our goal is to make every trip unforgettable and uniquely you.

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Upcoming Group Travel

Connect with like-minded travelers

Our selection of group trips brings travelers like you together to create connections and build community.

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December 2024

White Party Bangkok

Revel in the buzz (and boys) of Bangkok while ringing in the New Year.

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Splash of Pride May 2025

Barcelona to Ibiza & More

May 18 - May 25, 2025

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Splash of Pride SEPTEMBER 2025

New York, Bermuda & Back

September 10 - September 15, 2025

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Client Reviews

“Mike made my 24 hour turnaround in Paris a breeze. He took the time to understand all of my preferences and found a hotel that was absolutely perfect for my stay.”

Lauren F.

Booked

with

Mike

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“Randy did an awesome job planning a European vacation for us. We are not easy to please and he knocked it out of the park.”

Tom T.

Booked

Euro Hotel

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Randy

Client Reviews

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"Omar made booking SO easy! He was attentive and available for any questions we may have had. I can’t wait to book our next trip with him!"

Jami S.

Booked

Waldorf Astoria Bangkok

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Omar

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Our team of experts will walk you through every step of the planning journey, so you can enjoy a seamless trip on land, at sea, or wherever your destination may be.

Book with Bestmates

Travel Friends With Benefits

Redefining Queer Travel

Friends With Benefits

Itineraries Made For You

Connect with like-minded travelers

White Party Bangkok

Barcelona to Ibiza & More

New York, Bermuda & Back

“Mike made my 24 hour turnaround in Paris a breeze. He took the time to understand all of my preferences and found a hotel that was absolutely perfect for my stay.”

“Randy did an awesome job planning a European vacation for us. We are not easy to please and he knocked it out of the park.”

"Omar made booking SO easy! He was attentive and available for any questions we may have had. I can’t wait to book our next trip with him!"

Ready. Set. Travel.

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