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Authentic experiences & insider benefits for queer travelers

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Upcoming Group Trips

Connect with Like-Minded Travelers

Our selection of group trips brings travelers like you together to create connections and build community.

September 5–10, 2025

Splash of Pride: NY to Bermuda

Join us on the Mermaiden Voyage of Virgin Voyages' newest ship, Brilliant Lady.

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November 13th – November 17th, 2025

Camp Bestmates

A field day long-weekend, to bring out our inner child, designed to maximize queer joy and build community.

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About Bestmates

Redefining Queer Travel

We're a community dedicated to redefining queer travel. We focus on connecting LGBTQ+ travelers who seek authentic cultural experiences through a queer lens around the globe.

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Friends With Benefits

From niche boutiques to 5-star resorts to Michelin Keys, we partner with the best properties around the world to get you insider perks—at no extra cost.

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We've got the latest destination intel to build travel itineraries focused on genuine connection and authenticity. Our goal is to make every trip unforgettable and uniquely you.

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Client Reviews

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"He provided us options that were exactly within our budget and qualifications, and listed us the pros and cons to each one which made our decision making a breeze."

Ceazar C.

Booked

Grand Hyatt Manila

with

Peter

Client Reviews

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"Omar made booking SO easy! He was attentive and available for any questions we may have had. I can’t wait to book our next trip with him!"

Jami S.

Booked

Waldorf Astoria Bangkok

with

Omar

Client Reviews

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“Randy did an awesome job planning a European vacation for us. We are not easy to please and he knocked it out of the park.”

Tom T.

Booked

Euro Hotel

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Randy

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Our team of experts will walk you through every step of the planning journey, so you can enjoy a seamless trip on land, at sea, or wherever your destination may be.

Book with Bestmates

Travel Friends With Benefits

Connect with Like-Minded Travelers

Splash of Pride: NY to Bermuda

Camp Bestmates

Redefining Queer Travel

Friends With Benefits

Itineraries Made For You

"He provided us options that were exactly within our budget and qualifications, and listed us the pros and cons to each one which made our decision making a breeze."

"Omar made booking SO easy! He was attentive and available for any questions we may have had. I can’t wait to book our next trip with him!"

“Randy did an awesome job planning a European vacation for us. We are not easy to please and he knocked it out of the park.”

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